Rediscovering reconciliation

Archbishop Aquila invites faithful to encounter God's mercy in sacrament of confession

Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,

As we begin this holy season of Lent, my desire for each and every one of you is that you come to know and receive the love of Jesus Christ, and that you make a firm commitment to grow in holiness.

When I visit parishes, I often ask the young people, who here is going to become a saint? Many don’t know how to answer, and the parents are surprised by the question. But this is a question we all have to ask ourselves. Are we going to be saints? Are we taking steps to grow closer to the Father, Son and Holy Spirit? Are we trying to discover God’s will for our lives?

My brothers and sisters, Jesus and the Father love you and they want to give their love to you in the Holy Spirit. It’s important for you to say “yes” to this great truth. If we truly trust in Jesus, he will change everything in our lives, but this will not happen without you. You have to open your heart to conversion. And even then, becoming a saint doesn’t happen overnight, and it is not without struggle.

This is why Christ gave us the sacraments. They nourish and strengthen us as we travel the sometimes difficult road to holiness. When we go to Mass and receive the Eucharist, and when we approach the sacrament of confession, we are meeting Jesus, encountering his mercy, grace and strength.

Being a good Catholic isn’t about saying the right things, having the right ideas, making grand sacrifices, or even strictly about keeping a moral code. At its core, our faith is about knowing and being transformed by a person—Jesus Christ.

With confession, Jesus extends us an invitation to grow closer to him by admitting our shortcomings and asking for his forgiveness. Although we have damaged our relationship with God by sinning, the beauty of confession is that we are able to receive his mercy and forgiveness, and restore our relationship with the Lord.

I urge each and every one of you to go to confession this Lent. If you have not been to confession in years, now is the time. Now is the time to prepare your hearts to celebrate Easter. Do not be afraid of the sacrament of mercy. Do not be afraid to change your life. That is what our Lord wants most for each and every one of you.

Jesus only invites, he never imposes, even though he longs to give you his love and mercy. It is up to you to cooperate with Jesus, to open your mind and heart, and to follow him.

I wish you all a blessed Lent,

Archbishop Samuel J. Aquila


COMING UP: Care for Her Act: A common-sense approach to caring for women and their babies

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The pro-life community is often accused of only being pro-birth; however, a congressman from Nebraska is seeking to not only bring more visibility to the countless organizations which provide care for women experiencing crisis pregnancies through birth and beyond, but to also imitate that care at the federal level and enshrine it into law.

Rep. Jeff Fortenberry (R), who serves the first congressional district in Nebraska, is expected to introduce the Care for Her Act to Congress soon, a bill that’s been in the works since last year. The overall goal of the bill is to “[commit] to care for that journey of life through a complementary set of services whereby the government makes a decided choice on behalf of the life of the unborn child and meeting the needs of the expectant mother,” Rep. Fortenberry told the Denver Catholic.

The Care For Act seeks to accomplish this through four basic provisions: A $3,600 tax credit for unborn children which would apply retroactively after the child is born, in addition to the existing tax credit for children; a comprehensive assessment and cataloguing of the programs and resources that are available to expectant mothers; providing federal grants to advance maternal housing, job training mentorships and other educational opportunities for expectant mothers; and lastly, offering financial incentives to communities that improve maternal and child health outcomes.

The Biden Administration recently indicated that they’ll be removing the Hyde Amendment in next year’s budget, which has historically been in place to prohibit pubic funds from going to abortions. The Care for Her Act would circumvent this to some degree, and it would also test whether Rep. Fortenberry’s dissenting colleagues who have in the past expressed that women should be cared for throughout their pregnancies and beyond are willing to stand by their words.

While the conversation around pregnancy and women’s health often centers around abortion, Rep. Fortenberry intentionally crafted the Care for Her Act to not be against abortion, per se, but rather for women and their babies.

“Abortion has caused such a deep wound in the soul of America,” Rep. Fortenberry said. “However, the flip side of this is not only what we are against, because it is so harmful, but what are we for? So many wonderful people throughout this country carry the burden of trying to be with women in that vulnerable moment where there is an unexpected pregnancy and show them the gift of what is possible for that child and for that woman. Let’s do that with government policy as well.”

Congressman Jeff Fortenberry (R) of Nebraska is expected to introduce the Care for Her Act to Congress soon, a bill which seeks to provide a community of care for women facing an unexpected pregnancy. (Photo courtesy of the U.S. House of Representatives)

Even The Washington Post has taken notice of the Care for Her Act. Earlier this year, Rep. Fortenberry introduced the idea to his constituents, and as to be expected, he received mixed feedback. Those who are pro-life were supportive of the idea, while those who support abortions were more apprehensive. Still others shared consternation about what the government ought to or ought not to do, expressing concern about what the Care for Her Act seeks to do.

“My response is, if we’re going to spend money, what is the most important thing? And in my mind, this is it,” Rep. Fortenberry said.

However, he was very encouraged by one response in particular, which for him really illustrates why this bill is so important and needed.

“One woman wrote me and said, ‘Jeff, I had an abortion when I was young. But if I had this complement of services and commitment of community around me, I would have made another decision,'” Rep. Fortenberry recalled. “And I said ‘yes.’ That’s why we are doing this. For her.”

So far, Rep. Fortenberry has been able to usher support from a number of women representatives on his side of the aisle. He is hopeful, though, that support could come from all sides of the political spectrum.

“Is it possible this could be bipartisan? I would certainly hope so, because it should transcend a political divide,” he explained. “We, of course, stand against abortion because it is so detrimental to women and obviously the unborn child. At the same time though, I think that others could join us who maybe don’t have the fullness of our perspective, who want to see the government actually make a choice on behalf of protecting that unborn life.”

Amidst the politically polarizing discussions about pregnancy and unborn life, the Care for Her act is a common-sense approach to caring for women and their babies. It offers women facing an unexpected pregnancy the chance to experience hope in a seemingly hopeless situation and make a life-giving decision for both herself and her child.

“I’m excited by this,” Rep. Fortenberry said. “I think it opens a whole new set of imaginative possibilities for America, a transformative ideal that again makes this moment of vulnerability when there is an unexpected pregnancy, our chance, our commitment as a community of care.”