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Lessons from The Day of the Dress
Several weeks ago, I was invited on short notice to help “fill a table” at a benefit dinner. The theme of the evening was the Roaring...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Dec 14, 20224 min read


It’s OK to celebrate the dead, but it’s better to pray for them
(Photo: Jill Dimond / Unsplash) Well, I still haven’t mastered the art of writing columns AHEAD of major Catholic feasts and observances....
Mary Beth Bonacci
Nov 10, 20224 min read


Understanding our wounds — and letting God heal them
(Photo: Jackson David / Unsplash) Have you ever encountered a situation where your response was…well, weird? Where you could see that you...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Nov 3, 20224 min read


No such thing as a vacant prayer
(Photo: Chris Liverani / Unsplash) Have you ever prayed and wondered if God actually hears you? Have you ever felt like you aren’t...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Sep 15, 20224 min read


The Sacred Heart of Jesus burns for you
Photo by Gera Juarez | Cathopic When I was a kid, my parents had a statue of the Sacred Heart of Jesus prominently displayed on their...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Aug 19, 20225 min read


The clash of the post-Roe worldviews
Hundreds of pro-abortion demonstrators tried to block a monthly pro-life march and prayer vigil at a Planned Parenthood abortion clinic...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Jul 21, 20225 min read


Actually, Whoopi, that is his job
Archbishop Salvatore J. Cordileone at the altar during Mass in 2021. (Photo by Dennis Callahan/Archdiocese of San Francisco) What would...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Jun 17, 20224 min read


Open letter to a wavering friend
(Photo: Jonathan Sanchez / Unsplash) So, you say you are pro-choice. But you also say that you are appalled to hear that several states,...
Mary Beth Bonacci
May 31, 20224 min read


We Cannot Fight for Women’s Rights if We Cannot Define What a Woman Is
(Photo: Adobe Stock, edited) There are disadvantages to writing a monthly column in a 24 hour news cycle world. By the time my time rolls...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Apr 28, 20224 min read


You can’t get to heaven on your own — so stop trying
Assumption of the Virgin, Corregio, ca. 1526-1530. Well, I was typing on my phone during Mass again last Sunday. My fellow parishioners...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Mar 11, 20224 min read


‘Eye has not seen, ear has not heard…’
Paradiso, Gustave Dore, 1868. As I write this, we are on the eve of the first anniversary of my mother’s death. The last in a year of...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Jan 13, 20224 min read


Jesus came to save the messiness of you and me
(Photo: Adobe Stock) Have you ever googled “percentage of people who dread the holidays”? It’s kind of fascinating. The numbers range,...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Dec 30, 20214 min read


Aaron Rodgers, ‘little white lies’ and the virtue of honesty
Photo by Keith Allison on Wikicommons via Flickr So Aaron Rodgers is in trouble. Back in August, he was asked by reporters if he had...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Dec 1, 20214 min read


How do you want to be remembered?
Close-up of a mausoleum at Mount Olivet Catholic Cemetery in Wheat Ridge. (Photo: Denver Catholic file photo) I’ve been telling you that...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Nov 8, 20214 min read


Don’t fight God. Surrender and trust.
Photo by Steve Halama on Unsplash I spent some time the other day in the ongoing task of sorting through all of Mom’s stuff. So. Much....
Mary Beth Bonacci
Sep 16, 20214 min read


How loving and being loved changes the world
Photo by Timon Studler on Unsplash I’m a real estate agent. So I drive, a lot. Because I spend so much time in the car, I try to spend it...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Aug 20, 20214 min read


Sin, suicide and the perfect mercy of God
(Photo: Simeon Muller / Unsplash) I love my hair stylist. She’s a devoted Christian. So, when I see her, we tend to have much deeper...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Jun 24, 20214 min read


Bacon, a random highway, and the last day I spent with my mom
Photo by Jake Blucker on Unsplash Last month was my Mom’s 89th birthday. And the three-month anniversary of her death. I have written...
Mary Beth Bonacci
May 3, 20215 min read


Facing the fear of guilt
Image by K. Mitch Hodge on Unsplash First of all, I want to thank you all for the tremendous outpouring of support we have received in...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Mar 25, 20214 min read


Lessons on proper elder care after my mother’s death
We buried my Mom last month. In the summer of last year, I first drove her to her new memory care facility. My heart was breaking. She...
Mary Beth Bonacci
Mar 1, 20215 min read
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